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Saturday, July 30th 2005

12:26 PM

Back Again

  • I feel: At Peace
  • Song: Just One of Them Days--Monica

Woaaaah!  Its been a couple of weeks.  Everything is pretty much the same, but then again, they're not.  One important thing is that I finished my volunteer hours .  Yayyy me!  I had to do a substantial number of hours over a period of 5-6 weeks and I made it.  Turned in my hours and completed school for the summer.  So excited.  Now all I have left ahead of me is this last stretch of the road, these last few 'pennies' from my undergraduate experience.  Wearing that cap and gown will be so sweet

Besides that, a new 'development' occurred.  Just as I thought waaaay in the beginning.  Eddie had a ole lady from the get go.  Waay in the beginning when I looked through his phone and saw that he had my number saved as CANDACE instead of KK, I went off and although I didnt believe his damn excuse, I decided to let it slide for the simple fact of giving someone the benefit of a doubt.  I decided to let that be his one 'gimme' especially since it was in the beginning.  But things seemed to settle down after that.

He came here to visit me and things were cool.  He asked me to be his lady, I said in more words or less, "no".  That was that.  Between then and now, things were everything from chaotic and confusing, to calm and clear.  But I knew something just wasnt quite right.

So I made my trip to see him (driving 5 1/2 hours) and I knew this would be either the make or break of our friendship/relationship whatever it was called.  In a way, it was the only way I could find some hard-proof evidence that he was a no good dirty dog.  And boy oh boy did I find somethings .

Found some mail that was addressed there with his "ex" name on it, I saw an unpaid bill on the dresser at say 10am with her name on it, and by 12 noon, the shit was gone.  When dude was asleep, I finally saw my break that I had been looking for.........the celly .  Found all kinds of text messages to and from me, a girl named Amanda, and the "ex" that was recent as of one day prior with things like "I love you" "I miss you".   So I'm like ahhh haaaa.  I knew it.

So I wrote down homegirl phone number and packed my shit and left him in the middle of the night while he was sleep.  I left at 1am.  By 4:30am he started calling me; he continued to do so for the next 8 hours. Until finally I text him and told him I knew what the fuck was up and to kiss my ass and forget he knew me.  But ohhhhh noooo .  I didnt forget about Miss Ex-girlfriend.  I called her a couple of days later and basically confirmed that she was in fact his current girlfriend, fiance, and soon-to-be babby momma.  Me and her talked for about 3 hours then he came over her place so she and i got off the phone.  About 30 minutes later he's calling me and left a VM on my phone cussing me threatening me, calling me a lie, stupid, all kinds of stuff. 

I told the dude he was insane and I decided that I couldnt talk/communicate with an insane, irrational person with the temper of madman, so I would leave it alone.  Homegirl left a message on my phone at about 2am apologizing and telling me that she cussed him and kicked him out and for me to call her in the morning so she could tell me what happened when they called the other girl who was in his phone (who's number by the way, I gave to Miss Ex )

So I called and left a short message, got no callback.  She called 3 days ago and I missed the call.  She called last night from a blocked ID and left a message for me to call her because she got some info and yada yada.  Well, I called her and of course, I got no callback again.  I think I am going to leave their psycho asses alone for good.  Cause I'm not for any talk-show drama.  That's for the birds

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